Introverted in an Extrovert World
If being a redhead wasn't different enough from the norm, I am also an introverted redhead.
HI, my name is Megan and I am an introvert!
A lot of misconceptions go along with being an introvert, ones that are at times, very frustrating. I find myself constantly having to explain myself to the many extroverts in my life.
Many people think introverts are shy, antisocial, dislike conversation, hate crowds and being in public... and the worst one, is they can simply change their ways and learn to be more extroverted.
It may be an accurate description of SOME introverts but NOT all, as it may also be true for some extroverts!
I wouldn't classify myself as shy, I just open up slowly as I get to know people. I LOVE conversation and I hate small talk. I absolutely love going out and seeing friends and I definitely can't change these aspects of myself.
These traits is not what defines an introvert, its energy.
Yes, energy! How you gather your energy determines whether you are an introvert, extrovert, or a combination of both.
I recharge myself through being alone and solo activities. I love to run, hike, practice yoga, read, draw and journal. After spending a lot of time hanging out with friends or even family, I feel low on energy. An extrovert is the opposite and will feel energised after being around people.
To give a visual example: Plugs and Sockets
If an Introvert had an energy socket, it would be attached to its own body and plug into itself. An Extrovert on the other hand would have a power bar and many would plug into.
Being a personal trainer, fitness instructor and yoga teacher, my daily life is passing on my energy to others. Constantly uplifting and putting out positive energy. I'll be honest, after a long week I am drained...if I don't take that time to recharge my self energy battery I get irritated and frustrated easily.
As an introvert it's hard to get others to understand I need to take time for myself instead of spending time with them. It is honestly discouraging to constantly have to explain yourself. It gets hard not to feel like there is something wrong with you. I assure you fellow introverts, there is NOT!
I hope more people will appreciate the difference between each other and embrace their own uniqueness.
So fellow introverts let us unite ... Separately of course
